Alexander Pope once stated in An Essay on Criticism “A little learning is a dangerous thing” (updated in modern times to the saying A little knowledge is a dangerous thing).
Here’s a conundrum.
Benjamin Dover has lymphoma and is a candidate for a bone marrow transplant. Ben is 10 years old. His parents, Mr. and Ms. Dover agree to be tested to see if either might be a suitable donor. Dr. Smith, the patient’s pediatric oncologist, spearheads the process.
When the lab results return, Dr. Smith learns that neither parent would be an ideal candidate. Dr. Smith also learns from the genetic testing that Mr. Dover cannot be Ben’s biological father.
Mr. and Ms. Dover have been married for 15 years, and by outward appearances, seem to have a close and loving relationship. Further, Ms. Dover did not express any anxiety about the genetic testing.
Dr. Smith does not believe either Benjamin or Mr. Dover knows who the actual biological father is. In other words, Dr. Smith suspects there’s a secret that has been kept for a long time – but is not sure.
What to do?
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