Guest post by Michael M. Rosenblatt, DPM

 

Leonard Bernstein smoked cigarettes until his very last day. Pianist and composer Sergei Rachmaninoff smoked at least 2 packs/day and died of cancer.  It is astonishing how many pop/acting legends and entertainers fall into and die of self-destructive behaviors. It’s not an uncommon problem.

There are a number of reasons why you need to prepare yourself ahead of time to deal with self-destructive (SD) patients:

  1. They may propel a sham-peer review against you as a result of a bad result or “dumping.”
  2. They may propel a pharmacy board or DEA action against you concerning narcotics you prescribed.
  3. They may allege patient abandonment, a very serious board charge.
  4. They may file a malpractice suit for a bad result the patient himself caused.
  5. Some as yet unknown Obamacare rule/policy may ensnare you with abandonment new cause of action.

You may need a healthcare attorney’s advice if faced with these challenges. But, when you plan in advance, you are better able to deal with them. Paradoxically, in order to do this, you must first evaluate your own psychological makeup. The reason is that SD patients are deeply invested into the “Drama Triangle” (DT for short – not to be confused with delirium tremens). You undoubtedly have your own prejudices about SD patients. I know I do. SD patients want to suck you into their own Drama Triangle. It’s what they do…

Understanding the Karpman Drama Triangle

The Karpman Drama Triangle (DT)   https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karpman_drama_triangle

This interesting behavioral model is one of the most useful we have. It is not based upon arcane theories of Id, Ego, Super ego or your prior relationship with your mother. Rather, it is a practical, usable model for understanding your own behaviors and their relation to others. It is another road to adult decision making. When you fully understand the DT, you’re more likely to escape the negative consequences of entering it. Anytime you enter the Triangle, either accidentally or deliberately, you are automatically shifting roles and moving from point to point on the Triangle, usually unaware:

  1. Persecutor (Bad guy)
  2. Rescuer (Good guy or enabler)
  3. Victim (Pathetic or angry)

Through each of these positions flow blame, guilt, lies, pain, enabling behaviors and co-dependence.  The advantage of learning it is that you can make a studious effort to avoid taking any positions on the Triangle in the first place. If you accidentally find yourself on the DT, you can make active decisions to extricate yourself from the downhill slope. Understanding it provides you with the tools you need.

 

 

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Learning about but the Drama Triangle is well worth the time and effort. Here’s why:

  1. It’s what self-destructive patients do.
  2. It will help keep you from being forced into a position of taking on patients you really don’t want to see, or if you must, avoiding the DT.
  3. It will help you extricate yourself if caught.
  4. It is a highly destructive behavior pattern you must be aware of.
  5. If you are financially strapped you may be forced to take on SD patients. Your own DT behavior may be the cause of that.

Nobody can teach DT in a short article. But without understanding the foundation, you will never really quite GET how self-destructive patients’ work. The purpose of any article like this is to avoid psycho-babble and still provide insight. You can learn about it privately without going into any therapy. It is well suited to scientists because it is a graphical analysis of destructive human interaction..

Avoiding the DT

There are two high-level methods to avoid the DT:

  1. Develop a comprehensive pre-planned system on how to deal with SD patients.
  2. Use your knowledge of the DT to extricate yourself when you see it coming.

Knowing yourself

When you know yourself, you can avoid pitfalls that will put you into the “grasp” of the DT. Here’s one short example:

Any physician who becomes “compromised” in any way is a DT target. If you are over-extended financially, depressed, over-worked and frustrated, or have home and family stresses, you are at greater risk of getting sucked into it.

On the other hand, when you understand the DT, you see it coming from a mile off. Your understanding allows you to regain control, which will help you select a better course for you and your patient. Best of all, it will help provide you with some additional tools you will probably need with our new, as yet undefined healthcare system.

 

(Michael M. Rosenblatt, DPM is NOT a behavioral specialist or psychologist. This article is not intended for legal or psychological advice, but rather for your entertainment and interest. If you have any questions or need advice from a legal or psychological counselor, you are hereby advised to contact a licensed individual in your area.)