Female physician with a crying patient

How to Say ‘No’ to a Patient Without Inciting WWIII

Physicians sometimes have to say no to patient requests. Often, the “No” with an explanation suffices. The patient gets it. They understand. They’re not angry. In fact, they may be appreciative.  But not always.  Sometimes “No” is followed by denial, anger, bargaining, depression, etc. Sound familiar?  How one says “No” matters as much as what … Read more

Male physician hugging elderly female patient

Can You Hug Patients? Should You Hug Patients? 

The doctor-patient relationship is an intimate relationship. It is based on trust. One of the tenets of trust is that it will not be exploited for personal gain.   Doctors become aware of patients’ most private secrets. And their vulnerabilities.  Still, medicine is “hands-on.” Examination of the patient often requires touch. And, if a patient initiates … Read more

Doctors on a group telemedicine call for a patient consultation

Are Chaperones Needed for Telemedicine Visits? 

Most telemedicine visits are little more than visual addendums to standard phone call encounters. Still, they add a face to a voice. One can pick up on body language. And they do enable limited examinations. For example, does the patient have a tremor? If so, what type? How would you characterize the patient’s gait? Is … Read more

Frustrated doctor dealing with angry patient online

Can You Win a Debate Posting a Patient’s Pics Online?

This question hit my desk. I’ve received some version of this same question over and over.   A plastic surgeon performed aesthetic surgery on a patient. Objectively the results look good. Subjectively, the patient disagrees.   Sound familiar?  There’s a conflict. The patient takes the conflict online. She posts photos which are a few days post-op. They … Read more

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